OK. Here we go again.
Part of the problem here is that *certain* religions act all threatened by 'nonbelievers' when they mean 'Not believing in *their God and rationale,' ...then so many atheists turn around and say, 'All 'religionists' are the same as those certain religions.'
Neither is either particularly spiritual, rational, nor very big on the 'emotional IQ.'
The suppositions of that 'Christians-versus-nonbelievers-in-Christianity' debate are missing the point of both reason and Spirit precisely because those distinctions are dogmatic, not based in human experience.
The whole 'argument' is constructed on the premise that believers-or-non-believers in a *certain* kind of religion impose and then claim is 'universal. But they aren't. The 'argument' so-framed is *only* about making sure that one form of religious authority's assertions and worldviews are the *center of attention, whichever 'side' you take. It's like some endless game of football they think will 'prove' something, in which people forget there's anything outside the stadium. That 'game' is all about the primacy of monolithic words, authorities, precedents, sources, and demands. And the premise that 'belief' does a certain thing somehow.
It's not everyone's game.
The reason some are so fearful of 'nonbelievers' (in their 'thing' ) is *not about* logic or spirituality. It's about authority and a sense of *control.*
When I don't trust someone cause they express atheism-as-authority or authoritarian 'religion' as-authority... it's not really cause they believe or don't believe some particular thing: it's when they think their belief *overrides* human interaction and decency. If a Christian says, 'You know I'm being an honest used car dealer cause I'm a Christian,' you have to wonder what they think of *you* and why that wasn't just a matter of claiming authority... which any liar could do... ....Likewise, when an atheist says, 'Whatever I say is smarter than you cause I call you a non-believer in my disbelief in what I label 'supernatural,' ...you really have to wonder why their reason needs *that* prop. (Reason is great: atheism doesn't necessarily confer *skill* at it.)
I have my religious beliefs, and spiritual experience, (And they aren't based on authorities or any of that, but it sure is interesting what turned up in history books and various records-not-accessible-before-the Net... ) ....but I know what they 'prove' to me, what they could 'prove' to someone else, and what they couldn't possibly 'prove' to anyone. *Reason* is about knowing the difference.
(And, yes, there is a difference, by the way: much of the difficulty here is, 'what is information,' ...All 'theories' are not equivalent, but I can prove something to *myself* with all due scientific rigor, say by researching obscure details of stuff I was born remembering: even if I can't prove to someone *else* that I didn't look it up *first.* There may be several possible theories on how that could happen, but, say you manage to catch a thylacine: spend some time with it, get a real good look, ....if you lose that thylacine, say in an unforeseen dirigible crash or ninja raid, you can't 'prove' to anyone else that you aren't making it all up, (and you shouldn't expect to,) but it doesn't mean you'd be a fool to believe *yourself*
(And I just included ninjas and dirigibles cause it was more fun. Not to trivialize what constitutes 'proof' and to whom.
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It's not 'carrot and stick' in my world. When someone thinks it *is,* you've gotta wonder what their 'price' is. Just like people who 'believe' life is all carrot and stick can't imagine people can be honorable *without* those threats and rewards.
Mistrust about 'belief' has a lot to do with what *premises* people are operating on. Or are perceived to.
Christians and 'hard atheists' are actually more alike to me than different. You both think your 'fight' is about the same couple of things out of the whole 'Verse and out of all ways of human experience. On the same kinds of terms. Obviously, the sources of 'data' are not of equivalent merit as far as that goes, but as much as I personally credit scientific observation more than I do translations of some 'revelation' by a long shot, ...a lot of you folks are still 'fighting' over the same damn things. Like that's all there is.