Rat, all I can say is you're missing a part of the picture here and I think maybe you're being a little unfair.
(No offense meant to you. I'm not flaming you. I'm just disagreeing with your stance a bit here. It's a little too hardline for me. I like you just fine and I think you know that. We have far more in common than not you and me. I'm just saying this is how I see it okay? I'm not meaning to start anything with you.)
I get that some Christians can be more than a little heavy handed, that being Pagan (or gay) in the wrong place can be hard sometimes, but for the most part the normal Christians I've met don't do that kind of thing anymore. Even in my ultra Bible believing town you can walk around with a pentagram on now and people won't mess with you much anymore. There are several Pagan groups here, a Buddhist temple, Hindu ones etc. People still look askance sometimes but they don't try to get them to leave anymore.
The gay vs church thing that's changing too but I still see a fair share of bigots around unfortunately and yes, many of them are still using the Bible to go there but most of them are what my Grandmother (who really was Christian in the best sense of the word) used to call "Piss poor excuses for being Christians!" people who are just talking about it, not actually walking their walk. I think the term Jeshua supposedly used was Pharisees but you get the general idea. My Grandma was a pray in the privacy of your home or quietly at church when called to, really try to love your fellow humans like Christ kind of person. She didn't believe in praying loudly in public or in persecuting people who didn't choose to be Christian. She did try to convert me as a kid, but she was polite about it and left off when I told her to quit. We got along fine she and I and that's saying something considering she was Episcopal/Catholic and I was leaning as far away from that as you could be...
The people here are evolving a little bit that way. It's been slow but it's still happening. They've read enough apparently to realize that most Pagans aren't devil worshipers and believe me it wasn't that way at all when I was growing up here. That's not to say the more fervent ones won't get upset and try to challenge and convert you. They will. But they're not as likely to throw fire bombs and nasty slurs at you as they were say 30 years ago. I have friends here who run a mainly Wiccan store and they're very well tolerated. That wasn't the case when they first opened up years ago. When something bad happened to them a few years ago because of nature having a hissy fit they got help from a lot of people, even church people relocating and getting set back up. It totally amazed me because I never thought I'd see that here Christians helping Witches. It was just awesome.
If anyone asks I'm not shy about admitting that I don't really have a religion per se but that for the most part my beliefs tend to run rather New Age/Pagan/Buddhist. Not being a Christian type I've gotten my share of Bible study invites out of doing that but it's a lot less annoying than it used to be. I still run into a rabid AOG person once in a while, but mostly people are cool about me not liking labels or messiah figures. I have known several Christian people though who have been actively messed with regarding their religion. It's not just Christian propaganda. There are people in various places who get beaten or worse just because they do cling to their religion. There's a lot of persecution going on in China right now and in the Middle East. It's not actually safe to be openly Christian in some places.
The Christian people who evangelize do annoy me and I'm not going to say they don't. I do not like when people go on missionary trips to convert people, particularly people with indigenous religions. I think they should leave the people alone to worship their ancestors or the earth or whatnot. The whole reason I don't put change in that bucket when I walk out of the grocery store at the holidays is because I don't agree with what the Salvation Army does. I think the help they give should come sans the sermons, but it usually doesn't. You want the free meal you have to listen to some preacher talk about sin, salvation and such. There's a reason they're called the Salvation Army and it's not because they run social programs for the poor. It's because while they are out there saving bodies they're also fishing for souls. It's always been their goal, do both.
That being said I have met some people who really follow their messiah, inoffensively, and I will give them their due. They're good people. They do a lot of good work in this world, they operate by example, and they don't witness and all that unless someone actually asks first. There are good ones mixed in with the radicals. It's the same as with any religion really. Some, most usually, of the people in them are perfectly sane and nice people. But in the end you will always have the radicals, the bigots, the posers and the air heads. Unfortunately they're the ones getting a lot of the attention lately. The Christian Right isn't speaking for everyone who follows the man called Christ they just think they are. Gandhi had it right, I think. Christ I actually rather like sometimes, but some of the people who profess to be following his teachings they truly baffle me and I don't particularly like them much at times.
Last edited by magkelly; 12-23-2011 at 12:37 AM.