Originally posted by mikemike I'm not sure what the goal of the posthumous conversion thing is, if it is just a way to honor someone who the mormon church thinks was a great person then I am okay with it, but I think they should come up with a less abrasive name for it.
The way I understand it, the purpose of posthumous conversion is to ensure all one's family, into the far past, can enjoy the benefit of Mormon Heaven together. In other words, there's a kind, sharing quality to it from certain angles.
Of course when we go back far enough all of us are related and thus eligible, if only we converted now or later. But we have to have a living descendant... who can identify us.
We lived in Salt Lake City for a while in the early 80s, it was a nice place to live. Our Mormon neighbors were the nicest, kindest people always willing to help out and include us. Once my wife made it clear she was Jewish and not interested, they didn't try to convert us - instead, she became a kind of curiosity, as most people had never seen a Jew. And Jews are, well, related to the Mormons. But genuinely nice people.
The relgion has its shadow sides of course; the more hierarchical and orthodox an institution is, the more suppression and other such there is, regardless of institution. Women in the religion don't have it so good: once divorced they are pretty much out of things, in Heaven they will be with their first husband, unless an unsealing ceremony is done.