Originally posted by Parallax Make sure you change the locks.
I've known this guy since I was like 12. I'm not that worried about him that way. Normally he's the nicest guy you'll ever meet though not the tidiest roommate. The snark thing is not like him. I'm just worried him being so wool headed lately is going to get someone killed. He also walked out the other day and left a burner on and a week or two ago he left the back door unlocked when he came in late. Fortunately both times I caught it but this is getting to be a real pattern with him and I just can't allow it to continue. He's already been over this morning apologizing, and to get his stuff. He wanted me to give him another shot, promised to watch it, but I just can't.
We parted friends. I told him I was worried about him. I didn't like what I was seeing and I asked him what was up. He just said he had a lot on his mind lately. I think it's more than that but I can't force him to level with me so that was that. He and the BF have been talking about rooming together for a while so maybe it's for the best. They've been mostly just friends but I think that's going elsewhere of late and that maybe they'll end up being more. I have a feeling I'll be losing the other roommate too come the end of the year. She's been getting very serious about someone too. I don't think they're ready to co-inhabit but it will happen sooner or later.
I'm kind of hoping they will actually. I've been wanting my house back for a while now. With the online store and my photography picking up a little more every day I think I can make the maintenance on my own and I want to move into the big back bedroom so I can shoot in the living room as well as the porch. I can't really build any boudoir sets until I have more privacy and space. If she goes too I'll have that. I don't want to kick her out before she's ready. We've been roommates and friends for a lot of years, but it needs to happen in the next year. Either that or I'll have to rent or buy another mobile home in the park and set up a little studio there. That might happen anyhow eventually. You can buy 100K mobile homes in here or 2K mobile homes. There's a wide price range. On my block there are two homes for sale now for under 10K and there are more in the park elsewhere even cheaper.
I just might talk to my CU about a loan for 4K in a year to buy another one and maybe to grab my K-30/18-135 and 55-300 combo too. My credit is not perfect but I've been with them for years. I've already paid off a car loan with them. Even when I was out West I still banked with them too. I have their CC and I'm not asking for much. They're big on small business loans for women I'm told so I think they will go for it. I don't want to take out a loan though until I am sure I am making enough money to be able to afford the maintenance on a second place and a loan payment. It would be far easier if I could just have her move out instead.