Originally posted by slip I have been struggling with depression off and on for a few years right now and would like to hear others that used photography to help you "recover" be it a book about it or what ever, just some personal experiences
thanks
many things to be thankful for but sometimes a struggle to see them
cheers
randy
Hi Randy,
Depression for me is part of a much larger medical mess (it's actually called Secondary Depression as it is resulting from another condition or in my case multiple chronic conditions). The Reader's Digest version of what's wrong with me is simply a large number of chronic muscular-skeletal conditions - some of which are auto-immune based, that cause considerable pain and affect my ability to function both physically and mentally. Since October of 2010 I've been on long term disability and since there is no cure for my many conditions, there is no chance of being able to return to work. I give you all of this just to give you an idea of where I am coming from.
I started my DSLR photography journey almost a year after I had been off work. I needed to kindle something I loved but didn't remind me of the things I couldn't do anymore (there's a long list). Ironically 2 weeks before the LTD Insurance Co cut me off I bought my K-r and a DA55-300. I debated for a few minutes to take it back after they cut my off, but thankfully I kept it - even though I fought the insurance co for 6 months before they reinstated me. It was a miserable time, but my K-r kept me sane,
Here's what works for me - for the most part recognizing that sometimes it's really hard to swing things the other way:
Photography - one of the best things I ever did was buy the K-r. For those days when I am finding things really difficult it might not work, but generally a successful shoot (and it often is out of my windows since getting around can be difficult) can help raise me up. When I was finding it difficult to get motivated I joined the Single in Challenge. This has 3 great benefits for the mind with the added bonus of helping you improve your photography. First it gives you are reason to pick up your camera every day. Second you interact with other with comments on the rest of the groups shots. Finally the warm and fuzzies you get with great comments and constructive input can really make your day.
As others have mentioned exercise does help - although getting motivated to get out there and do something can be really hard. I have resorted to self bribery even when it completely contradicts the health benefits of exercise.
Talk to someone who gets you. I do it online with a support group of fellow victims. It easier to talk with likeminded souls simply because explaining ourselves to "normals" is sometimes harder than living with the illnesses. We chat about practically everything, from how we are feeling and coping to what we are doing and planning. Unloading there grounds me as I can't write about all the things that make me miserable as no-one wants to read it. I also make sure I add the positive too, this makes it more interesting for others to read and more importantly makes me see the positive things in my life. Make sure you find the right group as there are a lot out there that can bring you down rather than build you up. If you don't find it beneficial, move on and try another.
When I started to find myself withdrawing and being at home a lot I plucked up the courage to volunteer. Once a week I visit with the residents of a seniors' home. It's an obligation that makes me get out of the house once a week for about 4 hours. When I set it up, I spoke to the volunteer coordinator and said I like to play cards is there any interest from the residents. Yes was the answer and for 4 years I've been playing cribbage every Wednesday afternoon. I have a regular partner who misses me terribly when I'm too sick to visit. This helps motivate to to show up and I benefit from our interaction.
I am sure there is more that I do, but at this late hour I am drawing a blank. If anything else comes to minds I'll let you know.
Take care,
Stevi (aka bigted)