The Heavenly Ski Resort sits on the California/Nevada boarder and it is directly across from Lake Tahoe. It's a beautiful area with a lot of outdoor activities during all seasons: rock climbing, mountain biking, skiing, hiking, boating, kayaking, etc. If you are into outdoors activities then you will really enjoy the area. Being at altitude will keep temperatures down in the summer while still getting decent snow in the winter. There is not much in the way of a big city life or night life in the area compared to elsewhere. At the end of the day people just want to go home and relax after a hard day's worth of work. They need the energy for the weekend when they go out on adventures!
Since you would be on the boarder with Nevada you can check out some of the casinos for the price of a short walk. Forget the gambling unless you like it but go for the nice restaurants and some live shows. If you live in Nevada then you will not have to pay state income tax on your earnings.
There are plenty of areas to explore around South Lake Tahoe, both in Nevada if you descend into the Carson Valley or if you head east and go deeper into the national forests. Since you are at altitude do not expect thick rich amazon rain forests. The forests are drier but still carry their own natural beauty.
You listed several other places and I think you almost can't make a bad choice!