My sincere sympathy. I know that sick feeling, it's like you have been raped, and in a way you have. Something has been taken form you against your will, against your wishes. Something you worked hard to get
Nothing worse than a thief in my books. Over the last half century I have hired some alcoholics, some idiots, and even a couple of convicted murderers, but never knowingly would I hire a thief. The idiots were born that way, the alcoholics had a verifiable disease and were working to cure it, the murderers had some justification....in my opinion, but a thief has NO justification.
Regards