Originally posted by cpopham Personally I believe it's much, much more widespread than just our school systems.
Basically, from my point of view, mediocrity has become the acceptable goal in Western Society, and few, if anyone is held to any standard any more. Not in schools, not in business, not even in our personal lives. We see this time and time again in the failings of various industries and organisations, and even in things like soaring divorce rates. It's just become acceptable, even expected to not really try.
We can't have grade curves and high achievers in our schools because we might make the less academic students have low self esteem...
We can't have people striving for the highest standard in business and industry because we have cost margins to protect, and 'good enough' pays the bills...
We can't even keep our families together, because it's okay for people to drift apart.
Nothing is anybody's fault anymore.
And it's bullshit.
But that's just the somewhat idealistic 2 cents of a 24 year old who still naively thinks the world can be a better place than it is.
I think this is true to a degree, but I also think it may be in part due to newer generations finding that excelling in the areas which one was culturally compelled to excell in in the past is no longer fulfilling. Sure, maybe being at the top of the class, climbing the corporate ladder, being at the head of a company or at least being excellent in your business and living the American Dream seemed like a worthy goal to my grandfather (who persued such things successfully) but I would find a life like that empty. I could see myself lying on my deathbead feeling regret that I had lived my entire life persuing someone else's dream, after living an "excellent" life like that.
I don't think the problem is one of drifting away from the old standards: those are things that change, inevitably. The standardsfor living an "excellent" life in the 1500s were different from what you describe as well. The problem is that we seem to beinanempty period, where we know what we're given isn't fulfilling, but we don't know what is. So instead, as you said, we simply accept mediocrity. Kids today expect things to be just given to them. They're not given a reason to do things better (not ones that they can recognize, anyways), so they simply don't.
Of course, that's not true of EVERYONE around today. I consider myself to be someone who seeks rather than waiting to recieve, and I've found other ways to excel in life that I find fulfilling. Again, I'm not the only one out here who feels this way. I suspect that you're like that too, and maybe you've found the older ideals fulfilling. I've found newer ones, but I feel that both can be just as valid. But regardless of what ideals are held, I do agree with you that people need to take responsibility for their own lives, both successes and failings.
On an unrelated note, does anyone know why any time I go back to insert an extra word or letter it types over what I have already written? I've had to forgo spaces between some of the words above in order to insert something or other that my fingers skipped over.