Originally posted by poco People seem to be confused about what the American dream is. It isn't about owning this or that. The American Dream is that your children will live better than you do. If you think about what that implies, you will see that most of all the problems that started this thread, go away. Parents involved in actively seeing their children doing better. They themselves, doing everything in their power to do better so that it translates into a better starting point for their offspring. The world moving forward, not back into darkness.
But what is it that we call "better," and who defines it? Different generations, and different individuals within each generation, would define "better" differently if called upon to really give a serious answer.
The consumer-culture caricature of "the American Dream," the one that
is about owning this or that, is an easy enough dream for people to follow without having to think too much about what they really want or deal with the conflicts that that may bring about. I'm not necessarily critical of "the American Dream" in its original intent, but for mainstream, culturally acclimatized Americans it seems to have warped into something far less noble, something which I feel drags our culture down.