Originally posted by Ash I disagree with these points. Firstly, just because muslims are religious outwardly, doesn't mean Christians (who actually believe in the Bible and what it entails) are any less spiritual. But it's easy for muslims to point the finger and say "look at what these infidels are doing, gambling, stealing, raping, etc." - self-righteousness is quite commonplace.
Ash, I disagree with you, I will just give one example of sexual promiscuity, how can you say that it's ok to have multiple girlfriends at the same time (or even one girlfriend at a time with extra-marital sexual relationship), even have kids or get pregnant before marriage and still continue to live together as an unmarried couple, and still be spiritual? That is something that is much more common and acceptable for the average Christian compared to the average Muslim (not comparing a Christian living in a free society and a Muslim living in a locked up Saudi Arabia, just the compare the average Muslim in US or Europe). My point is not say that "my car is big", every person has to defend only his own deed in front of God, I'm not saying I am a better person because I belong to this group that happens to have a better overall average.
Quote: I believe in freedom of choice (of course within societal law and that which governs basic human tenants), and I believe Islam stifles some of that choice in the name of preserving purity and morality. A person who believes prohibiting certain freedoms limits the immorality is delusional IMO.
Islam gives you freedom of choice, there is no such thing as a forced conversion,
Quran 2:272
"You are not responsible for guiding anyone. GOD is the only one who guides whoever chooses (to be guided). Any charity you give is for your own good. Any charity you give shall be for the sake of GOD. Any charity you give will be repaid to you, without the least injustice."
[2:136] Say, "We believe in GOD, and in what was sent down to us, and in what was sent down to Abraham, Ismail, Isaac, Jacob, and the Patriarchs; and in what was given to Moses and Jesus, and all the prophets from their Lord. We make no distinction among any of them. To Him alone we are submitters."
[2:137] If they believe as you do, then they are guided. But if they turn away, then they are in opposition. GOD will spare you their opposition; He is the Hearer, the Omniscient.
[2:138] Such is GOD's system, and whose system is better than GOD's? "Him alone we worship."
[2:139]
Say, "Do you argue with us about GOD, when He is our Lord and your Lord? We are responsible for our deeds, and you are responsible for your deeds. To Him alone we are devoted."
<---- And this was addressed to the Prophet, he was not told to force others, how can a "righteous Muslim" of today force others to be good? This is how it should be but there are some people who would like to force it upon others, they are not following the core values of Islam, of Quran.
Let's not judge Islam's core values on what some people do, freedom of choice is a core value in Islam, otherwise Quran would tell the "believers" to force it upon others, nowhere in the Quran it says anything like that.
Hadith (saying of Prophet) in Bukhari (sorry, I don't have exact reference):
"He who hurts a Non-Muslim citizen of a Muslim state, I am his adversary, and I shall be his adversary on the Day of a Judgement."