Originally posted by lesmore49 That's what you need to do. Ignore.
Just about everyone else has, after all.
But maybe that's part of the problem.
Mind you, I see the merit in the idea. Daily.
The abuse is because they aren't used to being *called* on anything. Not that they ever *hear* anything.
They want to claim 'authoritay' from out of their miniverse where petty cruelties are 'righteous' and some really sneaky 'librul agenda that might happen someday' is to blame for the fact they *can't face facts.*
Blue's little 'BS meter?' I suspect it's actually a 'guilt meter.'
People don't usually bully out of some kind of sheer meanness. They're afraid of something worse happening to *them.*
Thus, once they get fooled into doing something to someone else, have to make it 'righteous,' or else... They fear that what they feared in the first place, might befall *them.*
So, in order to deny they may have been doing wrong, they make it worse, until they're being led around by the nose by 'Big Lies,' and maybe missing out on the fact that they're no longer in the world the rest of us are... looking for who to blame for the alienation.
Every single one of them will look for excuses to keep up the abuse, to prevent themselves ever having to experience dread 'uncertainty,' which leads to *learning.*
Notice how they go to great lengths of implausibility and nast? Not cause they really think it's *smart,* but because they fear that they might have to face *stupidity.*
Leaving them alone in their separate little world may not be the most compassionate thing to do.
If they want 'forgiveness,' ...they have to stop.
They aren't going to stop, in their own little separate CJ.
Aren't going to stop, anyway, very likely.
Denial creates monsters.
And monsters create denial.
What they're creating here, is a 'monster' ...of me, of you, of any 'librul,' anyone who's *different,* ....cause they're scared little children bullying on the playground.
To remain a scared little child in this world *requires* 'monsters.' And growing up right about now is.... Something that scares a lot of people, clearly.
They have *everything.* Still scared.
So they need to make monsters. Out of whoever is the 'easy target.'
Maybe they've been 'ignored' too long.
Look what happened. To our country.
I think what they're really afraid of, ...Is a 'scapegoat' with a microphone.
What qualities I trust? Someone who's present, aware, *interactive* and of good will. That abstract quality we call 'honor.' It cannot be faked, posed, or demanded.
Never try to con a con. And a con knows, 'You can't con an honest person.' The way to find *trustworthiness* is first and foremost to *be honest, yourself.*
Then, you've got millions of years of instincts working for you, instead of being used against you.