Originally posted by Ratmagiclady ...To bury this circus?
This is a *Pentax* forum. About photography.
'General Talk' used to be a place where ugly stuff was said about people-not here. For political purposes of a certain few.
There was much recrimination. Things said about people like me, that was not true.
I did hold my tongue a while.
I watched that a while, and eventually, as polarization mounted, I said something which meant I got threatening mail in which I was told that I would be 'outed' if I didn't shut up, so I outed myself first.
Of course, at the moment I did so, the same certain few said, "Aha! I knew it all along! You're a man-hating lezbeen! Which explains you not reacting as expected to my homophobia when I attacked you (and all LBGT people) as a 'Librul!'"
Then I was told I was 'Against all good' according to 'religion' for not pronouncing all non-Christian people 'Evil.'
I said.... This is not true. In fact, 'Religion' doesn't say this, and as a matter of fact, I am not of that kind of religion..'
So, religion was dragged in...
At which point I was accused of being a 'satanist pervert Wiccan,' the most of which is BS, and the latter of which is only, well, somewhat true, but close enough for now, let's say.. But closest to it, even if 'rock worship' ain't the thing in either case.
But also this was used to 'justify' all that had come before.
So, it was about 'religion.'
There was much recrimination.
There was much scapegoating.
There was even a separate board to *contain* the scapegoating, more than not, since I'm about the last who hasn't, with private apologies to me, *left*.... and even here we see...
What.
A Pentax community?
Or a focal point for all manner of nonsense and *ite* that no one would acknowledge?
Shall I go?
Would it *help?*
Or what?
First off this "circus" (politics, religion, etc) was created for the purpose it is being used. This is not "General Talk", it is not about photography, it is a pressure valve that lets the steam vent from a predetermined location to prevent blowouts elsewhere.
I won't say it never happens, but very rarely are things said about you, they are said
to you. Nobody can through snowballs at you if you aren't there, and probably wouldn't through them even if you were there but not throwing them back. So now because you don't want to play any more you think everybody else should go home.
Once again, you have brought the LGBT issue up. I wish I could find a way to explain this to you so you would understand, but I have no magic words. Others, some more eloquent than I, have tried and failed as well.
NO ONE CARES! The issue is not that you or anyone else is gay. The issue is that you make it the focus of just about EVERY post you make in this section. The issue is an issue because YOU choose to make it one at every opportunity. I just don't know how to say it more clearly than that.
As far as the religious aspect, you have made it clear that you blame Christians for every negative aspect of your life, past, present, and (presumably) future. Gee, why would anyone take offense at that and want to defend themselves?
The whole point here is that you are using this section exactly the way it was intended to be used, just like the rest of us that participate here. Does it go too far sometimes? YES, from all sides. Should some of the personal stuff be toned down? ABSOLUTELY! Should you pick up your marbles and go home? Only you can decide.
RML, I hope you don't give up, it wouldn't be the same without you. I think if you look at it from a distance you might actually be able to see that "kick me" sign that you keep putting on your own back. I know you have several people on ignore. If you need to you can do essentially the same thing with this whole section, but again, I hope you don't.
It isn't time to bury the circus, but perhaps it's time for you, me (and a few others as well, HINT!) to refine the act just a bit.
Jim