Originally posted by Evie As a girl I would recommend to get your wife addicted to various beauty (or other sample) boxes: they are not that expensive, but she will be getting packages constantly, so will ignore yours
Originally posted by Evie As I said, it is not necessary beauty boxes, there are samples from food/snacks to clothes to books to almost anything
Still, multiple boxes....
I appreciate the suggestion for help, but:
1) M essentially never wears make-up nor uses perfume;
2) M avoids sweets/snacks as she has had a weight problem for many decades;
3) M is fond of particular pieces of jewelry given to her by special people or obtained as souvenirs during our travels, essentially all of it being "costume jewelry." She did not want and consequently does not have an engagement ring. When my mother died, her rings (big diamond on the engagement, diamond-studded wedding) went to my sister, and when she died, one of the rings went to our daughter, the other to our daughter-in-law, as M never wanted them.
M's "frivolous" expenditures are two: 1) travel, which is hardly uniquely hers (she's always willing to take me along, thank goodness); and 2) books - our house easily has 10,000 books, probably more. No use trying to hook her on Book-of-the-Month-Club. She's already on a couple book seller mailing lists, and does indulge herself now and then. But that's READING = something that school teaches you is important and valuable and even a responsibility. What teacher ever told you photography was a worthwhile pastime, much less that LBA was really healthy for your mind?
In truth, I believe M thinks I spend too much money on photography, but then she considers that I don't drink beer, watch football (etc), don't buy a new car until the current one is ready for the crusher, don't lust after a boat to go fishing, don't go hunting or own firearms, etc, etc, and she never never really complains much less reprimands. The only addiction I have is photography, and I'm a hopeless gear-head VAV equipment, been that way since before we met. So, she knew what she was getting, knows what she has and is willing to put up with it, but she will let a little sign of disapproval escape now and then. We're all a bit of a fixer-upper, but sometimes it's better to leave some broken bits as-is.