Originally posted by Canada_Rockies You've some catching up to do to get where I am. Anniversary #53 was July 24th, 2018. A little barking at each other yesterday, but no blood yet.
Originally posted by WPRESTO Who is "keeping" whom? Presumably you've been licensed to live with her. Is she willing to renew your license? You have way to go on me. M & I will celebrating 50 in January. Goodness knows what our kids will do.
We have been living in sin the entire time. Some folks ask why we never married. Our collective response is it works, so it doesn't need fixing, and marriage may ruin it. We rarely disagree or quarrel, and when we do it is reasonably benign. Set up ground rules in the beginning, defined roles and responsibilities, agreed upon who pays what bills, and share the mortgage. She has her bank account, I have mine. If she wants something, she doesn't have to clear it with me, and the same goes for me. We are both responsible with our finances, have great income (although she is fully retired now) so money is never a problem.
My mother's parents married at 18, and took their vows of "until death do us part" to their graves. Grandma passed away first, at 85 I think, grandpa followed at 90 or so.