David???? Been married less than a month? Never been around a woman before this one? Friend, when it comes to camera gear, you don't ever turn away anything your wife gives you, not ever!
What you do..... You act so excited she fears you might stroke out.....even faking a little faint is fully acceptable. If you can keep her on this trend, and sort of guide the results you desire, you will be one of the luckiest men here...guaranteed. If you turn her off of giving camera gear, and I pray it's not to late for this message, then you will be forever criticized when you want to buy a new lens or camera. Don't ask why or how that makes any sense, just trust me...after almost 50 years I know how this works. I learned the hard way many years ago, and like an elephant memory, Mrs Rupert recalls every little rejected item from those early years. It took years to overcome and get it right.
If she bought me a new Canon tomorrow, I would almost pass out with joy.....before reporting a week later that it was stolen and I had to replace it with the only thing available, a new Pentax.
You better wake up sonny boy, or it's gonna be a rough ride for you in your future. Don't try to tell me she's "different", none of them are "different" when it comes to rejection, you better believe it!
Best Regards!