Some background, which I hope takes some sting out.
FWIW the Mods are volunteers and in most cases very long term members. contributors and PF enthusiasts themselves. Those of us who have been members for a few years know member and Moderator "personalities," and can interpret their comments in that context - so we often don't respond to their tone in the same way other members do. Perhaps we should take more care - and then perhaps we should all just accept this is just the internet, not the UN.
Moderators do things behind the scenes we never see and keep the peace here in ways we'll never know (unless we do, in which case we shouldn't have done
). We should always be thankful for their generous service.
I wouldn't be a Moderator. I don't have the patience for it, nor the personality. I've been corrected before, and poked in comments by Mods. So far I've taken that in good humor because they've always been gentle - and right.