I found the stop down DOF previews on the slr/dslr s to be of not much use simply because the image is too small.
I have some cameras with no slr or rangefinder so I made a spreadsheet to get predictions based on the near and far limit functions.
The core issue is the size of the final image.
i use a 22 inch Eizo with about 1500 vertical pixels, so the COC is based on that.
I cloned spreadsheets for some lenses and adjusted FL, sensor size and aperture etc, just to get a handle on it.
M4/3, Pentax-110 18 mm at f/5.6
at 5 meter,Predicted allowable focus error of plus or minus 20%.
Easy! Here the scale focus was at 3 metre, somewhere in the midst of the 2 young ladies and the pro, none of whom probably care about DOF at all.
The pro photographer was quite genial and offered to take some family shots with the humble M43 and the tiny manual P-110,
but I was too ashamed to give it to him, after his big brand new Nikon! And he did take some excellent shots of us with that Nikon.
https://app.box.com/s/42j9ocuem9jmrqo4uvsr
Pentax 6 x 7 , Tak 90 mm at f/11 on the Graflex
at 5 meter, Predicted allowable focus error of plus or minus 14%.
Need to estimate a bit better, but still mostly OK! ( posted before I think)
https://app.box.com/s/pzzorays1lydomsk9rre
Of course, as the distance gets longer the estimation gets easier. As Norm mentioned, the close up guys can't do such approximations.