Originally posted by ccc_ we had an ex-pat Londoner who stopped at our regular coffee shop
he didn't understand about space and eventually moved on
I was working in his shop and he asked why were a bunch of pricks...I said...that's why
you say...good morning
if you get a nod or a verbal response then you may speak again
if not take your cup and doughnut and sit at your own table
try that again the next morning and the morning after
they will eventually talk to you...or not
that's nuts...where i'm from...
I said...you can stop right there
you're here now
we didn't want to be you two hundred years ago and still don't
you live in a state that has more area than your entire country
less folks than you had in the city you came from
we like it like that
now as to pricks
the consensus at our table was you are a loud, pushy guy that might be worth knowing if you ever shut up
but you didn't and nobody cared when you left
'cause it was quiet again and we could enjoy the morning
Those are some good observations of the nature of little cliques and clans....which is sort of what we are here...you think?
Coffee shops, corner bars, convenience store delis, doughnut shops etc.they can usually be found there.
Hard to bust in with these guys....took me a long time of giving and taking insults before I could sit at the table.
Most of these guys were not that much different than the guys I know in this thread.....a lot of talk....some truth once in a while...some insults (in good spirit of course!
) and a little fun whenever possible. Every one of them, a bacon lover.
In some places we fit...others we don't. Some places, like here, it is hard to tell if we fit or not....and it doesn't seem to matter in the least anyhow. I see 'em buzz in, drop a line or two and buzz out....not to be seen again for ages...if ever? Some only show up when they have been exiled to the doghouse and they need a place to hide. Others avoid rent by living here 24/7.
What would be interesting ...for me...is to be able to see how we view each other individually...and how accurate those views would be compared to the reality of the "real world"? Likely, nowhere close in most cases.....I know that meeting members in person, even for a brief period, can completely alter our prior perceptions...and even then, with only a brief dose of reality face to face....we are not really able to say we have a true rendering of who we just met...are we?
I can tell you some....like about old Jim up there in Pierre SD. He truly does enjoy his three good days of great weather each year.....but enjoys complaining about the rest of the days even more! He really is grouchy, grumpy, and gripey, and seems to enjoy that too
......otherwise, he is about what you see here, a pretty damn good guy with a few(?
) complaints about life.......oh yeah...he sure as hell knows his bacon too!
Strange things I think about .....we are all such interesting creatures in so many, many, different ways. I'm just old Rupert....who are you?
(I just proof read that...kinda.....mostly some rambling verbage.....that almost made some sense in a place or two.....got to make a note: Don't let that morphine dose go any higher than it already is! )
Regards!
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Originally posted by MarkJerling What's wrong with lycra?
Wow.....you figured out that answer fast!