Originally posted by tim60 What I don't understand is why so many people choose a career in something they hate so much.
When I chose my career (as a computer programmer - an extension of the hobby I'd had since I was 11 or 12) and started off in a small, local software company, I absolutely
loved it. After a while, ambition took me to London, where I did a similar job but working for an investment bank. So far, so good.
Then, over the years (and at a few different banks / brokerage houses), came management responsibility of increasing levels and size. I didn't ask for it - it was requested of me, or simply bestowed upon or expected of me. It wasn't long before I did nothing technical at all, except for defining over-arching strategy. Later still, I found myself managing banking operations generally rather than technology per se. But still, I mostly enjoyed that... the business-related aspects, at least.
What took its toll on me, and wore me down over the years, was the lack of respect for people and their well-being. Ever-increasing demands placed upon me translated into unrealistic demands on my work-force, and when someone's skills weren't quite right, instead of developing that loyal individual we were expected to engineer their exit and replace them with someone else. Over-time pay for even very junior staff was abolished with a cheap buy-out designed to look financially attractive, after which even more demands were placed on them to work even more (now-unpaid) hours. That, plus ridiculous expectations to deliver more with less money and fewer staff due to constant cost-cutting (penny pinching), travelling and living out of hotels for a week or more each month, taking conference calls late into the night, being woken up in the early hours when there was a major technology or business problem... It was too much. I eventually woke up one morning and realised I simply couldn't stomach it any more. I'd lost every ounce of enthusiasm for it.
And I think similar things happen to a lot of folks, albeit in different guises. The career we choose might be something that interests and excites us, but things change over the years - sometimes by choice, others by natural progression - and we end up in jobs that look nothing like our original career choice
Of course, if someone chooses to become a
lawyer from day one, that's entirely their fault. I have no sympathy
Originally posted by tim60 The problem with buying it is it comes in large pieces and you only eat a small amount each day, and it has a relatively short shelf life.
Indeed so. Raw pig's blood isn't known for its lengthy shelf life