Originally posted by jatrax Yes.
I suspect there are a number of reasons for an uninformed (say first time) buyer buying a MILC.
1) Initial impression is that the camera is much smaller than a DSLR. This largely goes away when buying good glass but casual users won't buy that glass anyway.
2) It's new (and thus has to be better than an 'old' DSLR)
3) The 'gadget' factor. The menus and options on a MILC are far more computer-like than a traditional DSLR. So they must be better, right?
4) The 'cute' factor. They don't look like your father's camera?
Forgive this question - I haven't been following the entire thread and I am unfamiliar with your gear and preferences:
What mirrorless platforms are you familiar with from first hand use?
I have owned two different mirrorless ILC's and several mirrorless fixed lens cameras. My own impression is very different from yours.
1) Good glass can be slow. Slow good glass and small primes are available and these are tiny for very high quality. Overcorrected fast lenses are huge and I am bothered by this trend in all types of photography.
2) Some people may indeed feel that way. I don't.
3) The gadget features are often not just cute and fun, they are very useful workflow tools. Being able to upload directly to facebook or instagram directly from the camera (or via strong integration to a phone) saves a lot of time and fits the needs of a certain segment. Taking high end video and composing a movie is a huge boon to a lof of the users. The very short registration distance that permits the use of older manual focus lenses opens a world of cool experimentation that is closed to users of most DSLR's.
4) If by cute you mean small and stylish - what's wrong with that? If someone wants to stick one in a purse or glove box because it is cute and they have it with them when something happens and use it over their smartphone - fantastic. Often a DSLR will just not fit where a slow lens or prime lens and small body mirrorless will.
Please note - some mirrorless lenses and cameras are huge compared to others. There is no great benefit in size to a G9 Panasonic with a Olympus 40-150 f2.8 on it compared to a KP with the DFA* 70-200 f2.8. But if you are invested in the ecosystem, sometimes it is worth stretching to a larger size in the same lineup to avoid maintaining multiple systems. (I don't subscribe to this view, I have both m43 and K).
EDIT - I selected the wrong lenses at first. These are closer in angle of view and quality.