Not at all Schraubstock, my answer was tongue in cheek as well. Im sorry that wasn't clear.
I really do regard some photographers as idiots, and I don't think a strong condemnation of them is misplaced.
If you have a sitter who wants a portrait, the sitter invariably wants the photographer to demonstrate his skill by making the sitter look attractive.
Surely that's the purpose of a portrait. A man wants looks masculine and full of character and a lady wants to look feminine and attractive.
This means the portrait of a man benefits from a detailed and gritty rendering, emphasising his strength. The lady however does not want to look gritty and pock marked, she wants to look her best, and that usually means tasteful soft lighting and de-stressing of her defects.
A photographer who gets it monumentally wrong and makes a lady sitter who wants to look attractive look unattractive, is nothing short of an idiot and is I think incompetent. If the sitter was a paying customer, she would run a mile and tell everyone she meets never to go near the fool with the razor sharp lens and harsh lighting again. It would be the end of a budding career, so yes hes an idiot.
A grab shot of a street merchant or a lady hanging out washing is a different thing altogether. Its right and correct to capture all detail as in your shot. I in no way would suggest that you are anything other than a competent photographer, producing quality work.
I would add that I have produced portraits for difficult sitters. One lady who was not unattractive in her features but had some issues, I needn't go into what I did, but some heavy photoshopping was involved, I de-emphasised her defects and subtly trimmed her figure ever so slightly. I don't usually indulge in such heavy photoshopping, but she was very nervous about the result and needed this so I made an exception.
She was in love with the result and hadn't a clue how I had trimmed years from her, all she knew is she loved the image. That's what a portrait can be and we as photographers have to use our skills to give the sitter the very best image we can. She said she has not looked so good in a long time, she was genuinely very happy and the smile on her face was payment enough.
Last edited by Imageman; 08-28-2014 at 01:48 PM.