Originally posted by noelpolar I'll be the only one...... but it's a late in life marrage..(50ish) so we hopefully will all be quite relaxed!
Are you absolutely sure it will not be any bridezilla in 50ish?
I've never been a photographer in charge on friends wedding, but I've been a florist and wedding decorator in charge of family member's wedding ones. It's the most headache, the most mess, and the least appreciated job I've ever done. I offered my help 3 month prior the wedding, because I had some background in that field, but bride's family thought they can organize everything on their own. Fine with me, I offered.
I ended up with hysterically crying bride at evening before wedding asking me when she can find a florist for the NEXT day (nowhere,dear!), not decorated place, and I have worked on that from Friday evening to Saturday evening straight on coffee and no rest at all. I've never thought I can do it!
Thankfully, no flowers dropped from huge cascade bouquet, which I made with materials from Wallmart (!). I was lucky to find fresh flowers driving all around in morning, and no one compensated me my extra about 100 dollars for flowers and materials as promised.
I was "dead" on wedding party, and wanted only one thing- go home to sleep. But instead I've been taking pictures because who else?
I learned my lessons, and attend family/friends weddings as a guest ONLY.
Taking care of weddings is serious business. Either you are in, or you're just there for pleasure, taking some pictures, or helping a bit. But not in between those two statuses. It horrifies me.