Originally posted by FantasticMrFox Bwahaha, you are killin' me:-) I cannot pass up on a good comeback, as in, please entertain me!!
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Originally posted by UncleVanya No you don't apply this theory the same way. But even if you had - your risk and the risk of a typical average woman is quite different. This isn't about being paranoid. It's about being smart. If you take the risk, you take reasonable precautions. Your situation is not at the same risk levels. Your response is similar to the person paralyzed by fear - you have just gone the opposite way - the risk is small therefore it doesn't exist. Fine - stop wearing seatbelts, stop worrying about smoking, stop worrying about blood pressure, etc. At some point all of these risks can be considered small enough to be insignificant... unless you do the opportunity cost and determine that the effort to reduce risk is reasonable. At some point the effort to reduce risk is unreasonable - everyone makes different decisions around that but as long as the decision is rational it makes sense. Saying if you don't worry it won't happen - that's just wrong and insulting to those who do need to worry at least a little to make sure they are not going to regret not worrying later.
I think I would prefer a world were we are all androgynous, so that way we all have same chances of fighting each other. Also, my husband could have our children instead of me one day!
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Originally posted by mattb123 In urban areas, I try to look as plain, bordering on grubby, as I can. I carry a small kit (purse-like shoulder bag with camera and a few primes and my small travel tripod). So far it has kept me out of trouble wandering through the cities I visit. I think pepper spray is probably a good measure for you although I figure my tripod and even my camera might be used for defense if it came to it. I also try to carry myself in a way that says I belong there. I've had homeless guys hang out and tell their life stories to me while I shoot but never felt like they were a threat. Giving those guys a few dollars doesn't hurt either, especially if you might come back sometime.
In wilderness I feel much more at home and have never had a run-in with hostile wildlife or people. I just try to be aware, identify my likely risks beforehand, and be prepared for the things you know you will encounter like the risk of falling, avalanche, or exposure. Something like a
Spot Navigator is a good idea if you go solo. I should probably get one but I haven't done it yet. Don't count on cell service, there often isn't any in truly remote areas.
My wife sometimes comes along, but usually doesn't. She's not that interested in photos when it's -20 and it can add stress for us both.
I also sometimes bring a friend or another photographer but the majority of my shoots happen solo and I like it that way.
I think for your urban outings, a camera club or some kind of group is probably a good idea, at least until you get more accustomed to doing this kind of thing.
If you ever want to catch a sunrise around Gunnison County (scenic Colorado) I'd let you come along with me if you like. I'm pretty harmless.
Yes, I am planning a trip to Colorado hopefully in Spring(wanted to go in October but got dissuaded by weather predictions, ended up going to frozen Utah in December, hahaha).
I am torn- basically I spend hours on end forgetting about time and world, when I am alone spying on birds, and when I did take a person who is not into photography or birds/animals, they would get impatient in about 20 mins. So I need something of a photographic or naturalist soulmate, who understands that:
1. time is not real, home will still be there in 5 hours
2. we don't have to talk too much.
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Originally posted by ldj4549 Too funny, my wife who finds me to be a complete nerd, which I secretly am, actually has come to enjoy my photo outings. I just have to make it fun for her, and she now calls it "Photo Safari" which is kind of cool because without me even bringing it up she will now even plans for the upcoming weekend to go on a Photo Safari. The challenge, which she likes, is just finding some place that SHE will find interesting to explore (and if she can bring the dog that helps). Then, find an out of the way place to have a cocktail and some food and explore the local culture - Photo Safari rocks and my wife likes it because she feels involved and can pick the location and subject, and she also has dubbed herself Location Manager and Chief Photo Assistant (i.e. she gets to carry my bag with water bottle)...after safari cocktails help too.
Aren't we all just a large children? It always makes me sooooo happy to read about enthusiasm of grown ups.
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Originally posted by noelpolar Some good advice here.
To me, most sensationlised attacks, such as Shark, Crocodile, Bear or Snake Bite get a lot of attention, whilst most people just end up lost, dehydrated, injured or suffer from exposure etc leading to more common serious consequences. Most of these things are brought about by a human condition..... called ignorance.
Like most things, urban or country, consider the enviroment your going into, prepare accordingly, have some form of communications with you (if possible), consider how you'd self rescue, be appropiately attired etc. In the end, we are all going to die sometime, it's very natural.....take stock of any irrational fears and work through them to ensure you've lived.
And remember, sunsets were created especially for those of us that aren't morning people.
Yes, you may be right about sunsets:-) It is funny-I am not really scared of death, as my daily philosophy is you never know how much time we have left or how and when we die(that's why I am irate when my boss informs me on friday night me we have to work the weekend)
My ideal scenario to go out of this world wood be on a mountain meadow or in a forest, while cottontails lick my face.
Either way, I am hell bent on exploring and escaping regular daily routine(which is a necessary evil to earn the money I use for my outings and photography).
That is why I am trying to find a way to be less scared of those magical off-times outdoors. If I get over this fear and my lack of discipline in the morning, my ideal scenario would be go out shooting early morning even before going to office(we have few natural areas close by), and be able to manage some outings before breakfast on weekends, that way I would not have to encroach on our "together" weekend plans every time or get resentful that I did not get my time outdoors.
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Originally posted by jbinpg In addition to the toilet paper, a shovel is a must.
Bwahaha-now, you are just growing the pile of things that I need!!!
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Originally posted by bertwert Roll a rock out a hole, roll it back in afterwards.
If you leave the shovel at home, you can carry another lens
I am totally picturing this scenario of a gleeful squee when I find a suitable rock! Very practical.