Originally posted by bakerking31 Taking the photo is the ethical concern. Taking the photo then opens up the issues of use of a photo of a minor.
What purpose does a person have to take photos of children that aren't theirs. Why would someone take those photos? I cannot think of any situation where I would think it would be a good idea to go to a park and take photos of kids I don't know. I would have no use for such photos. Hense the question of ethics is brought up. If you have no use for the photos why are you doing it? Is it for a nefarious purposes? Maybe not. But the fact that it's outside the normal behavior raises questions of the reasons for photographing which again brings us back to the ethical question.
I think if this thread was in a different forum (one that was not all photographers) you would get vastly different reactions.
Taking the photo is the ethical concern? Or, the use of the photo is the ethical concern? Or, the possible use of the photo is the ethical concern? Which is it?
I think I hear you saying that you believe that there is no legitimate use for a photo of someone else's child. I find that claim astonishing--astonishingly false. "Outside the normal behavior"?? So, the people this weekend who took photos of my child on stage in a musical.... had no legitimate use for the photo? What about my wife, after one of the shows, who took photos of our child and other children with her smartphone? No reasons? What about enjoyment? Memory? Curiosity? Love? Appreciation? I gave you a good reason why I went to a public park and discovered a good shot of other people's children. The kids were enthralled by an act at a booth, and I wanted to capture their intense expressions of joy, curiosity, awe, and concentration. It would have been a good photo, too, if the irrationally worried parents hadn't intruded on my freedom to take that photo.
By the way, in public we are not free to prevent someone taking our photo, so your false contrast of freedom to take the photo with freedom to avoid having the photo taken doesn't apply.
Take a look at the photo on my photo website of a child (lovingly touched by her mother) while at a museum. It's the one in black and white, so you can't miss it. I found the young girl's expression powerful and the scene aesthetically compelling. Those aren't good reasons, good enough reasons? Apparently not to you, but I assure you, they are good reasons to many, many people, including many who are not "photographers".
I can think of dozens of good reasons who someone would want to take a photo of someone else's child, whether during sports, music, dance, drama, school, recreation, or the street. Methinks your imagination is too limited. And it's not only me. Many, many photographers, including great ones, have taken photos that included ones of other people's children.
You may not ever have reason to take any photos of anyone else's children, and that's fine. I would encourage you therefore not to waste your time with such photos. But plenty of other people do have good reasons, and can justify them, for taking such photos.
Hence, your claim of an ethical issue here seems still undefended.
By the way, please don't take someone's memory card. If you do that to a pro photographer, you are interfering illegally and unethically in their work. They could sue you for everything you have, not to mention the criminal penalties you would suffer. It's not worth it. And it's not justifiable.