Originally posted by Ronald Oakes I will attempt this again , but want to know ?
Is this anxiety and stress shooting strangers something that will pass ?
How do you overcome it ?
This is normal. Whether itʻs your first kiss or your first portrait, itʻs going to be anxiety, stress, and a bit of excitement. You never totally overcome it, but habituation and practice turns negative energy into positive energy.
Also I think of a story I was once told of a tourist in the Outback of Australia with an aborigine. While looking into the distance, the tourist notices a snake slithering between the legs of an aborigine standing next to him. He asks, "is that poisonous?" And the aborigine nods, "yeah, lethal." The tourist asks, "arenʻt you afraid?" And the aborigine responds, "Iʻve done nothing wrong, so no harm will come to me. If I had done something bad, the snake will bite and Iʻm dead."
Of course, if you believe this, then seeing a snake as a wrongdoer, youʻll jump out of the way and the snake will probably strike at your movement. Self-fulfilling prophecy. So when Iʻve wandered the streets of Vera Cruz, or Cairo, or Paris, or in my shot below from the tram in Boston, I donʻt think of myself as out of place. I belong there as much as the people with me. I am not TAKING a shot, but rather, Iʻm capturing what is GIVEN to me.
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Originally posted by Ronald Oakes I used a F 50mm 1.7 and that was my thought also about the telephoto. I plan on taking at least a 100mm or maybe even 200mm the next time , and keep my distance !
That's more my comfort zone anyway.
Since it seems there really are "No Rules" , its nice going at my own speed , style , and distance.
Iʻve seen this approach backfire many times. People donʻt like to be sniped. And the compression removes a sense of intimacy.
I totally understand not wanting to go out of your comfort zone, but youʻll never progress in your comfort zone. I would recommend the opposite! Put on a wide angle lens and get so close, people will think youʻre shooting past them. Putting on a smile and wearing a hat or anything to make other people less serious and to relax is priceless.
Youʻre right; there are no ʻrulesʻ. But when you treat your subjects the same way as a wild animal that needs to be shot at a distance, you will either scare them away or offend them.