Originally posted by DeadJohn
Confidently asserting your rights is often a good idea. I disagree with goading people into losing their temper, though. You end up wasting your time extending the unpleasant encounter, and increase the odds of it escalating.
Every photographer needs to customize their approach to their own personality and the surroundings.
Yes, I didnt mean goad them into a tantrum just that if anyone is going to lose their temoer it should be them not you, stay calm and polite but dint give in. Giving in just allows them to close the gate to everyone else. You have to be willing to make a stand and not give in to people just because they are aggressive or threaten to call the cops.
---------- Post added 10-23-20 at 12:04 AM ----------
‘but if you saw some mysterious dude shooting away at your home with the same equipment how would you feel ?’
These days I would not be bothered. Back about 20 years ago I was involved in a rather dubious business which is best forgotten but a friend and partner turned on me and threatened to expose the story to the media after a fractious dispute over money.
About two days later I woke up, looked out the window and saw a TV crew outside my house. Bloody hell I thought, get your story straight and look good. Dont answer the door straight out of bed you will look a mess. So I put my warpaint on, did my hair, got into a nice outfit, all the while worrying they would start banging on the door any second, had a cup of coffee while anxiously waiting for the TV crew to start banging on the door. After about an hour I thought maybe they are waiting for me to go out and hoping to blindside me so I stayed put. I thought why put my head in a beartrap but after a few hours I thought to hell with it, go git em and shoot from the lip. So I braced myself walked out my front door, walked straight up to the obvious reporter holding the mike and said ‘ok ...what are you waiting for ?’
He replied ‘oh we are doing a piece on the poor state of the roads round here....would you like to comment on that as a resident ?’
Hahahahaha....
I have never worried about that sort of stuff ever since, paranoia is a useful tool but its too easy to let it en up running your life and suspecting the worst of everyone.
I later learned that my so called friend had in fact blown the story but the newspapers and local TV had decided it just wasnt interesting enough to bother with, so low down on the news agenda it fell even behind the poor state of road maintenance

a relief but also a bit chastening that your own dodgy past and dealings, no matter how large they may be in your mind, to an outside agency just seem piffling and unimportant and less of an issue than a few potholes. The guilty fleeth where no man pursueth is an interesting maxim and might well be true for major crime but it would be fair to say for minor misdeeds the guilty fleeth even when no man giveth a toss.