Originally posted by TaoMaas
Although I carry a camera with me much of the time, I took a workshop years ago where the instructor encouraged us to leave our cameras at home every now and then. He said, "As photographers, we tend to put a camera between us and every major happening in our lives...birthdays, holidays, family reunions, vacations. It's fine to photograph those things, but every once in a while, put down the camera and just be in the moment. That will lead to fuller lives, which will result in better pictures." I thought about that and the conversation in the other thread about this, so I decided not to take a camera with me when I took my wife out to dinner for her birthday this past weekend. Of course, on our way home we saw the coolest clouds I'd seen over the city in years!

My wife took several pics with her phone, but I just enjoyed the moment. This conversation also reminds me of something a speaker at our camera club once said. Someone asked him, "What's the best way you know to find great pictures?" He said, "Leave your camera at home. You'll see them everywhere."

I always thought carrying a camera just encourages you to use your eyes-to quote Dorothea Lange ' a camera teaches you to see without a camera'.
I had never even heard of Dorothea when I had exactly the same thought back in the 1960's when I first got into photography seriously, but it is a very apt observation. However I've always thought of my camera as a part of me, and if I ever turned up to a family event without it there would have been uproar! These days, with 'phone cameras everywhere, there is not the same reaction, but I still carry a camera. And because the camera is seen as a part of me, no-one even notices when I use it .But the I've never taken THAT many photos, just the ones I want and that might just work.
Funny enough, when I used to do a lot of video work when my daughter was younger and I was 'volunteered' by her schools to video musical and sporting events for them, then I found a definite disconnect from what I was recording since you have to be totally silent, to avoid the camera microphone catching every verbal reaction , and although you can immerse yourself in the image being recorded, without any vocal interaction somehow it seemed alien. Which probably explains why i much prefer still to video photography.