Originally posted by WLubarsky The pollen structures are secondary to the rest of the flower structure and the plant itself, with my budget I can't have everything. Needless to say the photo is still better than anything I can get.
There often seems to be a bit more depth-of-field behind the point most sharply focused on, so taking care not to focus on a part that is too far back, might make more of the flower appear in focus.
After considering all of the suggestions, if you want to just keep using the lens you have, you'll get more depth of field if you can close the aperture a couple of more stops -- that may mean shooting when there is more light or using a slower shutter speed or using a faster iso film.
Also, as has been mentioned, the greater the magnification the less depth-of-field. Try a few shots in which you don't frame the flower quite so tightly, even at the settings you were using for your posted example, you will have a bit more depth-of-field -- meaning more of the flower in focus.
Also, as was mentioned, the cell-phone that seemed to do this sort of thing so well probably had a much wider-angle lens. Wide-angle lenses can give an appearance of greater depth-of-field, but don't have the longer working distance (between camera and subject) that some people like. Also, when different focal length lenses are used at the same aperture and magnification the depth of field is exactly the same (Lefkowitz, pp70-71). The cell phone images might not have as great a magnification as you were attempting with film slr and lens and/or the cell-phone might have automatically boosted the iso greatly above that of the film you were using in order to use a much smaller aperture than you used.