I have kept my K-3 alongside the K-1. I thought I would use the K-3 when travellng, expecially for wildlife, but I haven't. I guess the main two things for me is the bigger viewfinder and the better high-ISO performance. In fact, I'm happily trading higher resolution for less noise when it comes to wildlife shooting. Light is most often less than ideal and requires raising the ISO.
The articulating screen is something I use a lot more than I thought I would. The third control wheel is nice, too. (The KP will give you that, too, though.)
As for lenses, I have acquired only two new (or "new") lenses with the K-1, and that's the DFA28-105 and A20/2.8, so I can't say much about the size and weight of the f/2.8 zooms - they don't interest me (because of the weight and size).
However, while I found the FA31 to OK on APS-C I find it absolutely wonderful on the K-1. Now it makes perfect sense and is rarely left at home. My other fequently used lenses are the A20, FA43 and DA70. They have taken up so much of my shooting time that I still (after just over half a year) haven't tried all my lenses on the K-1. For travelling I use the 28-105 and the trusty old SMC DA 55-300 (which is surprisingly usable even on FF).
I rarely, if ever, use AF.c, and I live quite well with 4.4 fps and the buffer depth even for wildlife. And after having visited some 40 national parks and wildlife reserves around Africa I still haven't seen a cheetah chase so not even a 600/4 on a D5 would have made any difference in that regard
Were I serious about shooting birds, though, I would prefer the K-3 - and a long and fast lens to keep the ISO down!