I have the Eclipse/Pec-Pad combo and they've never left greasy marks or scratches in my use.
I'm also apparently WAY more cavalier and careless about cleaning my lenses than you.
After I blow off dust with a Rocket blower, I just use breath and a micro fiber cloth most of the time. If there is grease or some other hanger-on, I have a big bottle of denatured alcohol that I got at the hardware store. I pour a little in a shot glass and touch a cotton swab or bit of paper towel to the liquid, then dab at any gunky stuff.
Good luck with your lenses. Don't give up on 'em yet.