Originally posted by axl thank you guys,
I'm just asking becouse my sister will have wedding in July, and though she has main photog + second photog (Nikon brothers) I'm brinking my Pentax and my wife is bringing hers too. But it's our first wedding, so let's see...
BR
Hey, it's a great way to learn about the process, Axl. Also, you can get shots that way that you *can't* always, when you're the primary. When you're the primary, you're kind of obligated to be a lot of places and pointing certain ways, often just when everyone else around is experiencing the moment. You can get the reaction shots at a lot of 'peak moments' while the main shooter has to be on the bride and groom.
Kind of a rite of passage, actually, when you're the fresh and quick kid running around backing up the solid-but-tired old pro, it's not really a question of *if* you upstage them, but how well and how much. This really is a trade I've always thought well-suited to an apprentice type system. Some of the best old dudes I learned a lot from would give you a smile and point with their eyes where *they'd* rather be standing if they didn't have to do the standard stuff.
I think it's a much better way to get started than flung front and center all unprepared.
I think it's worth every bit of schlepping and setting up the lighting, running triage on almost all of the half-a-dozen mother-of-the-bride crises the pro is supposed to deal with while shooting, covering for the effects of the open bar, if applicable, And sometimes even distracting the clowns in a given family with some attention. You get practical learnings, but also you get to see a wedding as something more than like a pit of ornery geese to be thrown into while being paid to make the whole thing look dignified... You can kind of step back and see what's really going on, and that's probably a big difference between actually liking to do it and joining the 'I did it once, never again' crowd. I mean, it's always kind of stressful, but you have to genuinely like to do it to really do it well.