Susan
et al., do not let the rejection into *any* gallery get you down. The pleasure is in knowing *you* like your work, and it should be considered a bonus that others should like it also. We are after all doing the vocation because we love it, and is not dependent on others' opinions. If it were, I would have given up long time ago.
My own results attest to this: see
here,
here and
here. And in trying to express my
own opinions in the past I've back-peddled and had to explain myself a lot - likely for my own shortcomings, which causes me to feel somewhat downhearted.
If for just developing skills this forum is quite helpful, but I too could get discouraged when I see the amazing work some of the guys here produce knowing that I could not do the same. But it's rather encouraging to see what they can do and motivates learning. We can get heavily invested in our own work that we fail to see how someone could criticise it or disagree with us that it's good work that we end up feeling offended by the negative comments. Instead, choose to expect the criticism and be confident in yourself that your work, whilst never perfect, is a source of joy and self-worth.
The striving for that elusive perfection is what we ought to keep in mind rather than feeling bad that we can never be perfect. I consider photography like kind of like a game of golf - we're all not trying to compete with each other, we compete against the course. Reaching par is nice, because it means we get a good result, but we can never always get the perfection of a hole in one.