For a walk around lens, go with the 18-135. The WR is indispensable... and for IQ it's the best super zoom out there. By super zoom I'm meaning zooms with at least 5:1 zoom ratios. The 17-70 is a little over 3:1. It should be better, and it is, but used as an all around lens, I frequently have my 18-135 zoomed out to 135mm, Having the 17-70 means you need something to cover the extra length, and that means two lenses not one.
The 18-135 is soft at the border at the long end, but still has excellent centre sharpness, so great for close ups and macros. But if you're looking for a compliment with macro, I'd say put a Tamron 90 ƒ2.8 macro with it. 325 US from hess guys...
New Tamron AF 90mm F 2 8 Di SP Macro Lens for Pentax DSLR 4960371004457 | eBay, I've bought several lenses from them. Add those to the 35 and 50 you're already considering, and all you need is the DA 15 ltd and DA 21 ltd and you are so laughing, although it sounds like you might also like something like the 55-300, which I'd recommend not because you are a birder, but because going beyond the 18-135, it just seems to be the best most reasonable choice. I also have a Sigma 18-250, which is handy.. but it's not WR, and while decent, it definitely suffers from superzomm syndrome (if you use it at it's worst focal length, you'll know you used it at it's worst focal length when you look at the pictures) far more than the 18-135.
To shave a bit off the cost of the 15 ltd and 21 ltd, you could also look at the new Sigma 18-35 ƒ1.8 which looks to be an awesome lens for fast plus wide angle.
Did I mention that the Tamron 90 is really sharp. Comparable to the Sigma 70 or Pentax 100 at a fraction of the cost. The build quality might not be up with the other two, but unless you're a lens basher, you won't ever wear it out anyway. I bought mine second hand for under $300. If you do need a telephoto shot sharp edge to edge and you have the 18-135, you can usually solve the problem by putting on the Tammy.