Photomatix, the oldest hdr software, and i'm sure many similar products, will also allow you to blend images without any of the hyper software effects. Photomatix, in the same program has 3 sub-programs: Detail enhancer, Tone (something), and Fusion. Fusion is pretty much the blending software you are looking for, i think.
The nice thing about photomatix and similar software, is that they have built-in alignment procedures for you, and ghosting removal, and some noise removal, all of which is optional. In photomatix, 2 alternate alignment procedures are provided depending on whether your images were tripod or freehand.
http://www.hdrsoft.com/index.html
The advantage of photoshop and PS elements is, if you're going to learn layers, or already have, this is probably a good first step in using them.