Originally posted by cxdoo I'll put a very blunt angle to it; I have photos from family history (vacation or not) that are priceless. I'd pay money for every bit of improvement in their quality.
OTOH, 'photoshoot' is just a job.
For example, I am an electronics engineer. I don't think much of devices I designed 15 years ago (even though I was proud of it at the time) but I value each and every personal photo from the same period and wish I had more.
So to debate that job is more important that your personal life is just silly no matter what angle you try to put it at.
I suppose in some sense your right. I do value my time with my family more than my time at work.
However, my wife stresses a lot more about a wedding shoot or portrait session than I do about individual photos of my family. I don't need a million photos of them and if a few don't turn out, so be it -- I take a lot of photos and I certainly am not going to have some segment of their lives missing (barring massive hardware failure).
If you shoot a wedding and you blow some part of it, it's done and your reputation will suffer. You really can't reshoot. If necessary, you can re-do a portrait session, but once again, your reputation will suffer and it often is tough to do with schedules.