OK, to better illustrate what I am seeing, here is an illustration
On the left is before LR manipulates it, on the right is what it does to it. In this case, I actually like the LR one a little better but it loses its 'POP'. The hair doesnt look nearly as good, and his mouth and tongue are kinda just there. I don't normally shoot kids or people in general for that matter. But for flowers and bugs it really takes the 'POP' out of the shot. I dunno, maybe its just a first impression kind of thing. What do you guys think?