Originally posted by ziggy7 Shooting a wedding is a big responsibility. You have little to gain and a lot to lose. The best favor you could do for the bride is to help her to realize she needs a pro. Where and when is the wedding?
Best advice. So don't shoot it.
You're going to lose sleep over this, and it just ain't worth it.
This couple and their families are going to take this beautiful, righteous and pure love you have for photography and turn it into something dirty, disgusting, and shameful.
Been there...done that...back in the film days when a lot of supplies/processing costs were on the line as well.
DON'T DO IT!!!
Also, forget about talking reasonably with these people beforehand, because anything they say or agree to, they'll conveniently forget and hate your guts for what you do.
As it is, they're going to be married when they see your shots, so they're going to both be miserable by the very nature of this circumstance.