There are few kinks in the cable of course.
The problem is that sensor is a linear (like) capturing device so that means the darker the part gets in the image the less information there will be captured. (this answer your noise question)
So of those 13 EVs captured not everything is useful.
Then there is the format it's displayed on, most monitors give you about 9 to 10 EVs and paper is about 6 to 7 EVs
As for the adjustments.
You need to play with the curves or the exposure settings like highlight adjustments, blacks and contrast.
But you're always playing with it really.
bit about ETTR that shows you a bit about what the linear information capturing i mean.
http://schewephoto.com/ETTR/index.html
If you like HDR you can look on google for pseudo HDR, that's HDR made from 1 image.
http://layersmagazine.com/hdr-in-lightroom.html