Thanks to everyone for all the feedback!
Trying to reply to all this helpfull input:
I find that focus peaking is a lot easier then using the viewfinder. But usually i just forget its there... could make steady shots harder too. Let's see if I remember it next time
This was maybe misleading, but I underexposed on purpose(higher shutter speed / lower ISO). Indoors I usually set the exposure up once and tweak if needed.
Got some AF Lenses too and use the center AF point and compose after focus. Heard split-prisms can influence this and also read that some calibration of the new screen could be needed. If i had a second body I would do it in an instant...
Actually i got some practice last evening when I met with friends again. Took my small tripod with me, which is barely able to hold the cam with the small prime, and left it in my jacket
We sat around a low table all the time so it would not have helped much this time.
Focus bracketing could be useful if the shot is critical for me. Have to try this.
On the noise questions:
Most of my pictures are processed in lightroom only. I rarely use the in-built noise reduction. However I reviewed my shots in the bar again and came to the conclusion that sharpness was mainly lost by mediocre focus and camera shake.
With this in mind I boosted the ISO to 2500 right from the start last evening. Got some nice captures and the noise is no issue in them. It was not that dim this time so focusing was easier. But still some shots OOF.
Definitly want to go wider so I get more options in composition too. Will give ebay a visit soon. K-Mount indeed helps working with a small budget
The lenses I got from my grandfather are sadly all in fujica x-mount. Konverted a 28mm but this can only focus close now. One of them is a 50mm f1.2 sitting on a analog body and waiting to be used again...
The screw drive I got are a Sigma 70-300 and the F 35-80 and I find them relatively loud. Will look into this again when I find a screw driven lens that is bright enough to use in the described situation.
The problem with catch in focus was for me that it takes a bit of time in low light. This would be my preferred method elsewise.