Originally posted by Shellz19 shutter speed was 1.6
? what do you mean by that? 1.6s or 1/6?
this could be the cause of your problem.
To take a sharp handheld picture a rule of thumb is to have a shutter speed not slower than 1/focal length. e.g. @ 70mm you need a shutter speed of at least 1/70 to get a sharp handheld picture.
with the SR on you can lower that value...
but in your case of a portraiture you want a shutter speed of about 1/125 to freeze the natural eye movements. even when on the tripod.
i usually use the center point and move the camera as desired to frame... but on the tripod you can just move the af point to the desired position and take your image... you can move the AF point... read the manual...
On the other hand if you want to decide on what is in focus you should consider manual as this will give you the ultimate control. and it works really well with the K3s live view with focus peaking...
The AF is doing some guesswork to achieve the focus but it will never know what you want.... AF works best on contrasty things