I just finished reading this entire thread. Wow.
The feedback OP received was rudeness rather than criticism and I'm surprised it was allowed to stand. The mod defended it and then went on to say they've investigated themselves and found no wrongdoing. I didn't know the exclusive gallery existed but this thread guarantees I'll never visit it.
Originally posted by Parallax Perhaps you didn't realize that the discussion is about our
Pentaxforums Exclusive Gallery (PEG); not the Pentax Photo Gallery (PPG)? I did a search under your user name and found none in the PEG.
This is beautiful.
The perfect counter to the same kind of rudeness OP faced from the PEG.
I have an honest question for you guys. What is appealing about submitting your work to a clique of anonymous strangers, or any strangers for that matter? Their criticisms don't help because you have no way of evaluating their expertise or motives. You're left with whether their criticisms sounds plausible to you, and let's face it, if they do, you could have arrived at that conclusion without the middle man. If it's accepted, what does that mean? They're still an anonymous clique of strangers. Neither criticism nor validation mean anything unless you value the person offering it, and to honestly value a person we must know them to some degree.
I just don't understand, and I want to, not because I'd want to participate in something like this, but because I don't understand it. It reminds me of the "roast me" subreddit, but I'm not sure if that's still a thing. People would post a picture of themselves there so that the user base could hurl the worst insults imaginable at them, and it was never a roast for long like in the party sense with people you know and value, it always descended into bitter antipathy and overt rudeness. It's not a direct parallel, but I see similarities. Perhaps it's just the veil of anonymity, but I think there's more in common.
On a philosophical level, is it possible to be attracted so something like the PEG in the absence of pretense? It probably is, I'm just having trouble thinking of a good reason.