DAZ is right with both the CTO gel on the flash so that the white balance can be set to tungsten, as well as referring to the strobist blog for detailed solutions.
You will also find situations where you have tungsten, daylight and flash all at the same time. Or you may not have your flash gels handy. In these cases you need to decide which light is the primary source, and white balance for that. In most cases the flash wins, and you can still get pleasing effects from the yellow incandescent bulbs and blue tones of the natural light in the background.
The shot below was is all tungsten since it is still dark outside, so nothing coming through the windows. I'm using a bounce flash without a gel off of the ceiling for my main light, and everything else is "yellow." Aside from the the blur (my fault), the color temperatures seem to work together...at lease good enough for a candid. This could definitely have been balanced with the gel, but I personally like the results.