Thanks everyone for the excellent responses.
So far here are some of the stand out things that have been mentioned here. Hopefully I and others can apply this to their own photography. Please add to the list if you can think of anything.
Bokeh is not an art form unto itself.
Bokeh should compliment not detract from the main subject of the image.
Colors can make for good bokeh.
Lights 'can' make for good bokeh but it all depends on how they are used.
Be very mindful of the intensity of light.
In short watch not only your subject but the background as well. (The background is a photographic element as well)
Uneven lighting or 'bright spots' can be distracting.
Be mindful of small reflective surfaces and/or intense lights or a combination of all of the above.
Smooth bokeh seems to be preferred so choose your backgrounds wisely.
There is no 'rules' per se... they are more like 'guidelines'
Thanks again everyone.
I do want to say thank you for participating in my little experiment. I intentionally put a picture up that 'wasn't perfect' with the hopes to fish for responses. Yes, this was intentional.
(Basically I think sometimes the forum gets too wrapped up in gear and less wrapped up in photography) That said I did in fact learn a whole lot through this so it wasn't entirely concocted... (only about 50%)
Now all that said is there anything I left out or that I might add to my list?