Everything you need to know, you can see in the viewfinder.
There is no equivalence that resolves exposure value, field of view and depth of field.
AN example....
Lumix ZS100 at ƒ3.2, 1/125s
1/125s is the preferred speed for freezing people in informal snapshots.
If I want to take this with my K-1 I have to use ƒ/16.
The resultant shutter speed would be 1/6s.
In other words, if you try and include DoF in equivalence, you get shutter speeds that aren't functional. Practically you can't take that shot with the same results.
Better to just realize some sensor sizes are better than others and use the cameras to their strength. Don't take snapshots on dull days with large sensor cameras, don't take landscapes with large DR values with small sensor cameras. NeIther large format nor small format can be used interchangeably. In that sense equivalence including DoF is a complete lie.
There simply is no equivlance that can resolve both exposure values and DoF values. And if shutter speed, aperture and ISO and DoF are not all equivalent, (which they aren't) there is no equivalence.
For depth of field ƒ/2.8 small sensor might be 16 FF.
But there is no scenario where ƒ/2.8 small sensor is the same as ƒ/16 FF for exposure. One will be 1/8 the other. You can shoot more depth of field at faster shutter speeds with a small sensor.
Equivalence including DoF does not coincide with equal exposures. Equivalence including DoF is a myth when looking at a camera systems. And pretty much useless in any case.
What I do is get to know my lenses. Shoot a "base" ƒ/5.6 on APS-c, ƒ/8 on full frame and base ƒ3.2 or 2.8 on my small sensor cameras. Experience has taught me what that looks like at various distances. So when I approach a scene, my internal discussion is "do I need more than my base aperture or less? " This is based on my understanding of taking an image with different sensor sizes. There is no way to make this less complicated, using some formula. You have to learn your gear.
You need to understand what you'r base aperture is for each camera...after that, you'll never need to work with equivalence again.
Field of view equivalence you need when you buy a lens if you use multiple systems if you don't understand one of those systems.
The whole "will provide the same image on different systems" is bogus to start with. First of all, if you're taking the same picture with both systems you are by definition making a mistake. Different systems have different strengths. Selecting the right system is the way to go, not trying to take the same image with two different systems. If what you are trying to do is something nobody ever does, maybe you need to rethink the utility of the proposed information.
It's kind of like,"If I have to push my car a km to the nearest gas station a smaller car is better." Finding one isolated reason for buying a smaller car, doesn't make it a better choice overall. There are other factors to consider. It is so annoying to see DoF equivalent proponents excluding exposure time and claiming that a difference of 1/125s is somehow equivalent to 1/6s exposure time. It's not. The whole thing is a fallacy.
How people can with a straight face claim ƒ/2.8 small sensor is equivalent to ƒ/16 FF without mentioning the problem created by shooting 1/8 the shutter speed on the FF is beyond me. It's a clear misstatement of the issues at hand to the point of being intentional mis-information. IN the image above, it could not have been taken with my K-1. There is no equivalent FF image to be had. There is no equivalent image taken on an FF nor could there have been one, given the conditions that day. Equivalence applies only to field of view and focal length. And even then, with two different systems, both will have strengths and weaknesses. They are never truly equivalent.