You keep talking about controlling the EV meter in manual mode, why do you even want to control the EV meter? I think you are getting yourself seriously confused.
As has been pointed out; in manual mode the EV meter compares your exposure settings to what the camera thinks should be correct exposure. In auto modes the EV bar is EV compensation to bias the EV level the meter reads up or down.
The best way to learn the basics of photography is not to play in manual mode, the best way to learn is read about exposure, "Understanding Exposure" is a great book to start with, or google the phrase "exposure triangle"
Last edited by twitch; 02-17-2011 at 09:29 PM.