Originally posted by RioRico The lens really doesn't matter. Light matters.
Everything that RioRico said is true. But.
And some of us have this big 'but'
But all I can tell you is this: I shot for about a year with the sigma 18-200 when I got my first DSLR. The only lens I had. Pretty nice all around lens. Then I discovered that I do like taking portrait pics of my family. So I got the DA 70mm and the difference was enormous. Some of it was due to the bokeh that you could get with a faster lens. The other was that I could shoot in situations where the slower lens could not. The other is simply that some of us tend to shoot more when we have an equipment that we like to handle and shooting more improves skills. Then I got the 50-135 to take pics of my kids on stage performances and in sports. Great for 'action' portraits. Then sometimes you need something wider for indoor shots and wound up with the tamron 28-75 too...
For those of us for whom this is a hobby and or lack the skills or the time and energy these portrait lenses can provide a short-cut of sorts. I dont kid myself, my pics are nowhere close to being professional but I sure do use these lenses more and get more enjoyment out of them. I am sure there are cheaper options but...
So, in short. And I will use a computer analogy. If you are the type who would love a non-windows/non-apple computer and like to fool around with stuff like linux and ubuntu you can go one way. If you a run-of-the-mill guy like most of us who is happy with Windows and not sure what all the complaints are about you can go another way. And there are many gradients in between.