Originally posted by MRRiley It's always amazed me that people are willing to spend thousands of dollars on food and decorations and things that won't last more than a couple of minutes or days... Yet they expect the person who is working his butt off to insure that their special day or event is accurately and completely recorded, in a form that will lasts for decades or longer, to work for peanuts (sometimes literally).
My daughter's wedding was a beautiful thing, on Hallowe'en night in a huge dark Gothic hall with the organ playing Bach's Toccata & Fugue (Dm) and all attendees in full formal masque. My impending son-in-law was a celebrity chef, and food was provided by his mates, all the hip chefs in the SF bay area. And the photographer... well, she used to shoot the goth raves the happy couple had run, and she worked for friendship (and a few bucks). But even a seasoned wedding pro would have had trouble in that dim theatrical space, and she wasn't, and the shots mostly sucked. Some of what I shot from the sidelines with a 1.1mpx P&S were better than the 'official' pictures. So the spectacular event survives mostly in our memories, not in imagery.
MORAL: If you're going to get your wedding shot, get somebody who knows what they're doing, and pay them for it. NOTE: I wasn't asked to pay for the wedding. Whew.