My suggestion IS to look at ebay and craigs list, but look for brand names you know and are some what local to your area.
Example, Smith Victor Q60 lamp, $20 from ebay.
Example, Smith Victor A80 lamps, total of 2 plus SV Raven stands (one needs a few screws), $20 from craigs list.
Total of 3 hot lights and 2 stands that retail for around $300, bought for $40.
None of the lamps are flashes but for the price, I felt it was worth it to buy. (Now if I can just get some body to pose so I can practice doing portraits
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