"mine has around 14k... but i don't think the issues has to do with the shutter, since the camera can't control the aperture when the lens is on A mode, or am i wrong?"
You're correct, actually just asked as a matter of interest, should have asked how often the aperture have been changed using the control wheel... or something that might have an influence on the aperture. I shoot mostly in AV and usually at f7.1, and don't use the camera controls to change that very often. I have about 32000 actuations on mine. If you use a lens with an "A" setting, the camera controls the aperture, to my knowledge.