I recommend a flash. People at a reception won't mind. Shooting at wide apertures without flash poses severe challenges:
- low shutter speeds can be compromised by hand shake and subject motion
- very shallow depth of field (difficult to get one subject in focus, more than one is unlikely)
- high ISO noise is unavoidable
- compromised lens performance wide open
Fast lenses are great and I highly recommend you get one, but a flash will provide superior results for what you're trying to do. A flash bracket is great for this purpose, but only if you don't mind looking like a pro. I've done three weddings as the main (only) photographer, but I'm no pro, and I can assure you, looking like a pro can be a bit uncomfortable.
Last edited by audiobomber; 10-02-2012 at 10:01 AM.